Post-Placement Supervision…what happens between placement and finalization

Adoption in Hampton Roads, Virginia Post-Placement Supervision by Linda Michie, Executive Director and Founder at Wishing Well Adoption & Family Services After a child has been legally placed in your home for the purpose of adoption, the placement will be supervised by a licensed child-placing agent. What does that mean? Your adoption agent will visit … [Read more…]

Identifying an Adoptable Child

Tips on Finding an Adoptable Child - Wishing Well Adoption and Family Services, Virginia Beach

by Linda Michie, Executive Director and Founder at Wishing Well Adoption & Family Services In order to adopt a child in Virginia, the child must be legally available for adoption. This means the biological parents have either had their parental rights terminated by a judge, or the biological parents are willing to legally entrust the … [Read more…]

Apologize to your children for your parenting mistakes… Here’s why.

Tips on apologizing to your child by Wishing Well Families, Virginia Beach

by Linda Michie, Executive Director and Founder at Wishing Well Adoption & Family Services Should we admit fault to our children? ABSOLUTELY! If you’ve ever been wronged and the person hasn’t taken responsibility for their actions, you know exactly how this feels. This is breeding ground for mistrust, disappointment, resentment, and distancing. You wanted them … [Read more…]

Handling Tantrums and Violent Outbursts

Handling tantrums, outbursts - Wishing Well Families in Virginia Beach

by Linda Michie, Executive Director and Founder at Wishing Well Adoption & Family Services First let me say that if this is a simple “whaa” because a child did not get his way, ignore it. Step right on by and go in another room. Most of the time a tantrum with no audience loses its … [Read more…]

The Home Study

by Linda Michie, Executive Director and Founder at Wishing Well Adoption & Family Services Now that you have chosen the right agency to fit your needs, you can relax in that your agency will keep track of what will be done and when. You should feel confident that your agent will let you know what … [Read more…]

Children’s 3 Basic Needs

by Linda Michie, Executive Director and Founder at Wishing Well Adoption & Family Services Children need to be safe. Children need to feel safe. This is the #1 non-negotiable aspect of parenting. If your children are not safe, get them somewhere where they can be safe and feel safe. No matter what the cost. Children … [Read more…]

Why is the 10-minute warning so important?

by Linda Michie, Executive Director and Founder at Wishing Well Adoption & Family Services Imagine this: You are at the best concert of your life. The music is perfect. They are playing your favorite songs. Your best friends bought you the tickets for your birthday and it’s pretty much the best time you ever had. … [Read more…]

Does your child have steady positive input?

Positive Input Tips from Wishing Well Families, Virginia Beach

by Linda Michie, Executive Director and Founder at Wishing Well Adoption & Family Services So many parents tell me that they spend their days telling their children “don’t do this”, “stop that”, “cut it out or you’re going to your room”. This is a steady stream of negative attention that teaches our children if they … [Read more…]